How to Leave

they usually do hunni but if your sure that you made the right decision then dont go back just keep things civil for the sake of you children...good luck Jenny

that's true just thin about the reason why you divorced him.
how do you feel about him? why did yall divorce?

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I have a problem can anyone give advise? I have been off and on with my sons dad for almost 4 years now, but i dont want to be with him, I dont love him anymore. I just dont have the strength to leave, if i do it will be my 5th time! He also thinks just because i am getting my taxes soon that he knew i would leave and i try explaining it to him and he never listens just yells and freaks out... I am just so tired and weak from all that has went on.. I love my son and will do anything for him, and with me and his dad staying together, i will never be happy and neither will my son. We always get into fights, most of them are just emotionally and mentally hurtful but some can be physical.... He has 2 other kids by a different woman.. I have caught them multiple times in the past messing around and they deny it saying that i am being dillusional..There have been lots of occasions i have caught my sons dad doing something stupid and not right.. But he always makes me feel i am the bad guy and i am a prostitute and i am not worth anyones time and noone will want me if i leave him... It hurts alot especially because i know my son doesnt need to hear and see what goes on.... I am just emotionally wrecked and tired I need help.. but i dont want to be alone.. I want someone that will love me or even like me for who i am and what i do.. and that will have the love for my precious baby boy as much as i do... I pray to god all the time to just let me get strong and get through all this and its like he never answers back as to what i should do...