Single and Struggling Forum - How to know if he is interested

I am a 28 yr asian women who is still single never been in any relationship inn the past.But recently I met one of my old classmate whom i knew from 10 years.He has been in touch with me for 3years and finally we met twice he likes me when I am around and shows lot of interest, somehow i didn't realize the first time. Although he said he likes me and even I said so but he has never called me from the past 7 months now but promptly returns my calls or chat request.

Now I am totally confused as to what he is upto? since I am into it now Sad

Should i still try to pursue or just leave it there?

Replies(4)

concernedn

replied on June 10th, 2009

Experienced User

Alright, be very direct and specific. If you think you really like him, just tell him about it. If he accepts fine, if not then go for someone else. You can't push him for building a relationship when he isn't interested. Can you?

enjoy40

replied on June 11th, 2009

New User

Thats right.....We don't live in the same city quit far. I am a bit shy to talk these things over phone what should I do?

concernedn

replied on June 11th, 2009

Experienced User

I know how exactly you must be feeling but you love him, don't you? Just tell him, the world will become easier for you. I would say it will rather be easier for you to tell him in the phone. At least you are not seeing him nor is he.

ServiceU

replied on June 12th, 2009

Supporter

you never know what he was going through the 7 months he didnt talk to you.
i was shy, but if you like him you have to be aggressive in some situations.
ask him is he seeing anyone, ask him how do he feel about you.
if you dont ask you wont know.
common girl, get this romance in motion!!!!!!!
if you like him let him know before someone snatch him up.
good luck!!

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