I think you came to the wrong place to "hook up". As for sex, I will say you are young and hormonal. Think before you act. And protect yourself, your body, your future. But this forum is not a forum to help people "hook up" and have sex. Sorry.
You don't need a boyfriend. I was the same way when I was the same way when I was your age. Having a boyfriend didn't make me happy. Sex didnt make me happy. The only thing that finally made me happy is loving who I am. And I missed out on so much, like just having fun with my friends, and being a teenager. And when I finally did find a good guy, it was when I wasn,t looking.
Ttust me. Learn from my mistakes, and focus on you for awhile. The guys you'll meet when your looking aren't the guys you want to be associated with anyways.
I really think that you need to talk to your mom bc if at anytime youare that close to having sex!!!! You need to be protected!!!! I would tell every teen that bc I know that if any of my children would come to me I would not a prove but would rather them come to me and talk to me!!! Than get preganant!!!! I really feel that parents need to know!!! Ofcorse it is going to hurt them but it is better than coming to them to tell them you are preganant!!! Please Teens really do this!!!
Yeah, I am sure they would flip at first!! But you have to think you are their baby still and thinking about you having sex is a really big deal!!! You also have to think about how you would feel if you were in their possition!!! It is a huge chioce for you to make!!! Beings God made it for a married man and woman the reason it was made for them was so that they become one with eachother. When you have sex with a guy you make a conection with that guy. And the more guys you have sex with the more less of a person you feel thats why most of the time girl continue to have sex bc they feel that they can fill a void in their life. Sex is not just something to do for fun. Sex is a beautiful thing between a married couple!! But like I said if you make that choice of having sex your parents would rather have you come to them now than wait until you are Preganant!!!!! Also I am sure that they have been in your shoes at one time in their life!!!! Just talk to them!!! It will take sometime for them to adjust! But atleast you are being honest with them and I see that as a great thing between teens and parents.
my mum has spoken to me. and a while ago decided to talk to me about the pill. im now on the pill as she thought i would get the urge with my bf. i am now starting to get the 'urge' as my mum says to have sex with him. the only thing is its been a month.
ive been speaking to him for over a year and all that. but only decided to make it serious kinda. about a month ago i cant actually remember:/ thats bad lol
well anyway im staying at his in july. anyway the point im trying to make is
i feel im ready for it but im going to bottle out when it comes to happen...
all im saying is be careful, dont charge into anything you dont feel COMFORTABLE with. make sure you love him and dont do it anywere your going to regret. at the end of the day its your decision what you however you are underage so probably a good idea to take that into account when talking to your parents about it.
oh another thing its just my mum that knows about me going on the pill i can talk to my mum about anything, my dad however complete different situation.
i spoke to my dad he says he doesnt want to know unless im pregnant.
just dont get to that point please, because my friend recently ahd a baby... last sunday to be precise shes not gunna be able to live her life to the full. brought a new life in too young.
please dont make any mistakes your going to regret. because with something like this you cant take back.
Are you serious? you havent found any other guys around you that want to have sex as well? at my school man all the guys think about is sex sex sex -.- haha ive been asked a thousand times from this one guy he just wants it so bad but im strong enough to say no because still young im only 15 im not going to damage my body im too young, anyone who's already had sex at the age of 15 is real silly ayee dude i know how you feel ive sometimes thought about it but then i remind myself im too young and to do so would be wrong dont have sex yet wait till your older ayee.