I will suggest learning to orgasm through masturbation first. It is important to know that your clitoris is the center of sexual pleasure. Rubbing it, over it, around it and along it is the way the vast majority of women orgasm. Make sure you have enough lubricant to make this comfortable.

I hope you are comfortable with your own genitals. If not, get a mirror, a flashlight lock the door and get busy exploring. Only when you are comfortable with your own sexuality and anatomy can you help a man to pleasure you. There is nothing 'down there' that you can break.

Does your partner play with your clitoris or have oral sex with you before inserting his penis?

try it the clitoris is well known for giving women a lot of sexual pleasure

ok im 18 and have been datin mybf for two years the sex is good i get pleasure out of it but i have never expierienced an intense orgasm like so many ppl describe. when i playwith my clit i get a really good feelin but it only lasts for a couple seconds. whats the problem? how can i have an orgasm with my bf