buy water based lubricant. Works like a charm.
Stimulate areas around his penis as well.... scrotum, thighs... don't pay attention to JUST the penis.

I guess every man likes to be stimulated differently so it's very difficult to replicate masturbation for him. But yeah, lubricant is a good idea. Tight grip and working deep from the bottom of the shaft works well but of course that could be personal preference. I guess giving a handjob is just one of those things that may be very hard to perfect. Not many men can masturbate a female as well as she could herself, the same goes on the opposite side of the spectrum. That's where oral sex comes into play.

Yeah your right MiseEire preferecnce and doing it ourself. THnks for the advice though guys and by his face and they way his toes were curlin I think I got it right this time

I'd say you hit the spot....hehehe