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Q: how to get a friend (same sex) to have sex?
asked by: jackking on August 25th, 2008
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i am really wanting to have sex with my male friend. he is not gay but i am bisexual. how could i get him to try it?
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GiRo
replied on August 25th, 2008
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THAT takes time.

I'm a girl and I have this straight friend (boy)
But I happen to be a big fan of gay porn!
So I invited him over and showed it to him xD
Just a small part, and it wasn't real, just anime(japanese cartoon/animation)
And I just talked about it at school and when I was around him.

A year went by and now he's insecure, he doesn't know if he likes men ore not.
He definetly likes women, but it means he could be bisexual.

Most guys have this anti-gay thing going on.
basicly because in school they want to be mister popular.

Hmmm... though I don't think my method would help ya much..
(talking about how awesome gay couples are and showing pictures of gays all the time)
Since somehow... guys think it's annoying when girls shove it in their face, but when guys do it they totally freak out.

If you got 2 chicks...
You could have like an orgy..
And then they beg for you two to kiss, and from one thing comes another..

HMm... no that's not it..

Like, don't guys sometimes watch porn and masterbate together ore something, to chicks?? Ore is that weird???

If it's really all about sex and not him..
I wouldn't bother all the efford of flirting and trying to make him bi.
It's a very difficult job. Besides, if you get the job done, he might fall in love with you for life, do you want to live with him forever?

Anyhow, there's a website for turning men gay, google it.
Maybe it required payment though.. can't remember!

Anyhow, just flirt carefully but stay yourself..
And whatever you do.. don't force it upon him.

Anyway GOOD LUCK!
I hope some gay guy gives you better advise then mine ^^'
(since they're experienced and all in this field and I'm not really)
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tchbmike
replied on August 25th, 2008
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Friend in the same boat
First of all, if he's not interested, I'd move on and wouldn't spend much time thinking about it, except maybe for those private masterbation times.

First, get him drunk. That seems to loosen a lot of zippers on str8 men.

Second, leave some porn, str8 that shows penis, bi orgies, and even man on man varieties and slyly notice what he checks out.

Three, tell him. Or ask him.

Four, just let him know that you've discovered how much fun it can be with some other pals, or talk about fantasy.

If your friend is uncomfortable with any man-on-man contacts or even the suggestion of it, then he might disappear on you. If so, move on, there are other men in this world.

But you might get lucky and score.

I know SO MANY str8 guys who love the non-emotional yet fulfilling aspect of playing with their buddies. Just keep it a secret.

Good luck horn dog.
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jackking
replied on August 25th, 2008
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i cant find the website on how to turn him gay. can i get a link?
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GiRo
replied on August 25th, 2008
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Sorry, i forgot, I came there when I was browsing for gay porn.
But on google you'll find more forums with this same questoin, just search type: turn straight guy gay

Besides, mikes advise is probably the best you'll find!
It's really true alcohol does a lot to men.

So, try your best!
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juicyj208
replied on August 25th, 2008
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tchbmike, if your guy friends like to play with other guys they are not straight, how can you not see that? And telling the kid to get his straight friend drunk and try to take advantage of him? What kind creep are you?

The only thing you can do is be straight up with your friend. If he's not gay he's not gay. There's no change about it and there's no secret to turning a 100% straight guy gay. The people tchbmike talks of must be mental or transsexuals. I believe your born either gay or straight, it's not a choice. However, bisexuality I think is.
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roxiebabi
replied on August 25th, 2008
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You can't turn someone gay if they r born straight. If he doesn't like guys then he won't want to have sex with you and you just have to accept it.
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marvel
replied on September 2nd, 2008
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roxie's got it: If he's not interested, there's no way you can 'make' him interested.
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naecos
replied on September 3rd, 2008
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Have u tried watching gay porn together? That might create some hot sparks for both of you
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Mikolas
replied on September 3rd, 2008
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Agreed with roxie and marvel.

Unless he has been in denial and have been keeping secrets in the closet, if he is truly straight, you won't convert him.

Don't do what tchmike stated about getting him drunk, that is as unethical as if a guy were to do that to a woman, and could probably be considered rape.
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gabby734
replied on September 3rd, 2008
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Stop!!!
You need to talk to your friend while he is sober, definately do not get him drunk and take advantage of him because there are some straight men out there who definately will not experiment with their sexuality..... If you get him drunk what if he wakes up the next morning and realizes what had happened.... his ego will be shot and I kno it sounds harsh but people kill... dont put yourself in that situation... just a few months ago a gay guy was killed out here because he was a prostitute that dressed like a woman, a guy picked him up and discovered he was a man and blew his brains out.... gross but true this is reality lets get real
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Unifier
replied on September 22nd, 2008
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dont force him or get him drunk its there or its not.. why not look at it objectively? if he is around you alot and knows you are bi then maybe he will experiment.. see if he comes to the bathroom with you and stand next to him in the urinals and see out of the corner of your eye if he looks down at you when you guys are pissing..

SLOWLY SLOWLY this might take months to figure out

OR you just have a crush on him that aint reciprocated. get over it if needs be.
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jeffax
replied on December 24th, 2008
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omg O.o
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