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Q: how to forget my ex , i wanna forget him

asked by: k969 on October 23rd, 2009

New User

Well , i ve been in relationship for 3 years , and he brokeup with me fom 4 months , and i cant lie i frgot him sometimes but when i see him i really wanna him to be mesarable not happy and laughing , he hurted me mre than once , i found out he is a cheater , he knew otehr girls within our relation he lied to me , he used me , he made me hatting myself for beliveing and for all these wasting time 3 years being a fool u think this one loves you care abt you wanna be you and want u to be his wife i wasnt ready to this commitement but i needed him and he left me , more than once and everytime i forgive him i cant hurt him i dont know how , i cry when i think i could hurt him , i see him usually every 3 days i hate my weakness , i hate seeing him , i wanna be free , i dont wanna search for him, i dont wanna hear his news , i dont know how , i dont wanna dream abt him i wanna be free from him , how ??? he was my first love im 21 btw but it hurted so much ,it feels so bad , much pain , i dont know wht to do ??

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ServiceU

replied on October 24th, 2009

Supporter

time heals all things! it took me a while to get over what my ex did to me, it's been 2 years and i still dispise him. your heart will heal and you will find someone better that respects and loves you.

W0LF

replied on October 24th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

I always see posts about people wanting to forget their Xes but never reply to them. It's disturbing to me but I certainly understand it. The pain of a break-up is hard for so many reasons. Let me just say that you don't want to forget him. You made mistakes in this relationship that you need to remember so they're not made in the next. You don't need to deal with that while you're suffering but its important to diagnose what went wrong. Additionally it was three years of your life. You can't give that up because it didn't end well. You fell in love, you had fun, you built a strong connection with someone, trusted them enough that it tore your heart out when they left. Those are wonderful things that are worth remembering fondly. Why dwell on the things that didn't work or turned out badly?

J3nnyuk

replied on October 24th, 2009

Moderator

No one ever forgets the ex partners and you never will because even if what they did to you is bad you will still remember the good times you both had because it is a time in your life which you enjoyed, all i can say is maybe try and put the bad things at the back of your mind and focus on your future...Jenny

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