How to Experience Female Ejaculation

You have to like or love your partner for it to happen. You have to love them an be very relaxed relaxed.

Ive never ejaculated. I stimulate my clitorus by allowing water to run over it during bath time and when i reach my climax the sensation is heavenly. The only thing about doing this is #one it can be addictive and # two it makes it very difficult for your mate to bring you to a climax when he is performing oral sex on you. It is almost impossible if he is not long winded. I don't think all women ejaculate. If most do I would like to experience that. Also maybe you can help me on this topic. From my own experience I assume that women are able to climax in two different ways. 1. clitteral stimulation and then the climax is reached. This produces as gooey, clear substance around the out part of the vagina and the vagina also contracts making vaginal pentration even more arousing/sensational. # 2. the normal sexual intercourse. The cum secrets from the inside of the vagina. I assume it comes from the cervix? I don't know I'm just saying what someone said to me in my last question on this site.. Read my other statement and then respond accordingly please.

Really! well i never knew that! oh well you learn something new every day..Jenny

I can do this and the first time it happend I actually thought I peed all over the guy. The best way I can explain it is you have to make sure you go to the bathroom before you have sex because you dont want that to happen, it is easier if you are on top, especially if you have never done it. While yo are on top you have to squeeze all of your pelvic muscles as tight as you can and it will start to feel like you have to go to the bath room. If you relax all of your muscles a few seconds after you feel that and at the same time as he is going out thats when it happens. If you have to use pressure to make it happen then thats not what you are doing. If u feel like a whole lot of fluid just rushed out of your body then congrats it worked!

I'm extremely scared to do it. i have no idea if its pee or if ejaculating is whats really trying to happen. so do i just relax everything or just tighten my muscles an keep it that way?

Well, some women are just not made to 'ejaculate' they have the 'other' kind of orgasm... I know, because I have both the 'inner' vagina and the 'spray' or 'ejaculate' kind of orgasm. The first time it happened for me I thought I was peeing myself, but I was so overcome with feeling soooo good that I thought, 'I can't be peeing myself' and my partner just kept on going, so I just kept on going... lol Now, whenever I have one of those kind of orgasms I just enjoy them and keep on going. Like I said, not every woman has the wonderful experience of having that kind of orgasm... they are wonderful,,, they really make your legs go weak...

I am one of those woman who can't ejaculate and it is very frustrating i have the sexual drive and get very wet but, don't have the pleasure of feeling an orgasim..
And it is good to know that i am not the only one with this problem as i thought there was something wrong with me.

I have the opposite problem as I can ejaculate with my partner, but I don't orgasm when it happens. It feels really good, but its not an orgasm.
I find the best way for me to ejaculate is when my parter fingers me from behind. It gets all different spots to fingering from on top and feels aaammmaaziinng

Dear ladies,

thank you for sharing your experience!
I have a question for you and I hope that some of you can help me answer.
I did ejaculate several times during a vaginal stimulation with my partner's fingers. However, it was NOT orgasm yet...it felt really good and I was extremely turned on..then it all started..however, I did not reach the end. Is it possible that women ejaculate right before the orgasm? ALl over the web ejaculation is mentioned only as a result of orgasm..and not the other way around. I will really appreciate your opinion )

I have only ejaculated when I was under the influence, and it wasn't enjoyable at all. Now that I want to ejaculate sober I don't know how to do it! I've tried doing it myself, and I have sex with my boyfriend alot, and nothing happens. I feel the urge to pee and I release, but nothing comes!

Stretch out stimulation and sex and keep yourself on the edge of having an orgasm for a while. When you feel like you want to orgasm, move stimulation somewhere else for a bit before restarting. See how long you can go before you have to orgasm. Then push out like you do like you want to pee while you orgasm.

Not all women enjoy gushing, and not all women even gush. Don't think that you are missing anything if you do not gush. Enjoy sex for what it does for you, for how it makes you feel and for the intimacy with your partner. Do not chase goals like this. It will just make you miss out on the wonderful experience of sex, and make you feel defective and frustrated..

Many women will also become more orgasmic and develop the ability to gush as they mature. Often in their late 20's.

Best of luck!

I was just about to post something (for a doctor) about this. I began experiencing female ejaculation during my pregnancy, probably around 4 or 5 months. I have only seen it in porn movies. Well, I was masturbating one night (yes it is normal to do so while pregnant), I decided to try something new. I never really played with my clitoris. I did that and I started squirting everywhere and freaked out. At first I thought my water broke, then I thought I peed but it didn't feel like pee or smell like it. At that time, it only happened while masturbating. After having my son, my boyfriend and I started having sex again and he was determined to make me gush and I finally did. When I do it, it's A LOT! It feels sooo good. The only thing I don't like about it is it's messy. You're constantly changing sheets. Now I do it everytime and sometimes I can't stand it because of the mess.