Well, a lot of women can't orgasm during intercourse. It's fairly common; I can't do it, and few of my friends can. You just need to know what acts can lead to an orgasm for you, and that's what you need to tell your boyfriend you want done! Most women come pretty easily through oral or manual stimulation.

If you're up for it, maybe get some toys into the action. You can buy a toy for his birthday that you both can use together! It might be a good idea to get a mini-bullet... they're good for clitoral stimulation. Slip one down there while you're having sex with him, and it will feel great for both of ya! Also, maybe try a vibrating ring that goes around his penis.

Yea I would say get a bullet..its small and it stimulates your clitorus during sex and I find that it works very well..I cant have a orgasm unless some clitoral stimulation is going on..if not I wont have one at all...But I also bout a regular size vibrator and I usually just let it sit on my clitorus and it helps alot........infact it helps too fast..Well hope u find something that works for you.