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I have been dating this girl for about a month now, and we are crazy in love. We really love each other and have a great connection; something neither of us have ever experienced before. We are both 24 years old. She is a virgin and I am not.

She wants to have sex, and I am touched that she wants to do it with me.

But, additionally, I really like oral sex. Blow jobs are okay, but eating a girl out is the best thing in the world. I told her this and she is really grossed out by it. She thinks it is really nasty. She also thought that about me fingering her, but now that she's adjusted to it she is asking for more. I know if she lets me, oral sex will be the same... and she said she knows the same too and will think about it but probably not.

Question: How do I convince her oral sex is not gross and nasty, and can feel really good? I think oral would help her prepare for real sex too and would make it feel better.
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replied March 27th, 2010
Hey midtn86,
I used to have that problem with my boyfriend,but we had arranged that for one day out of two weeks we would try new things such as blowjobs, etc. And we would see by the reaction to it whether it was pleasurable for either if us. The reason I am sharing this story to you is that you both have to be open to new things. You can also discuss it or turn it into a game, be creative and try to make it fun for both of you. I really hope I helped. Good luck.
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replied March 27th, 2010
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Oral sex is just kissing, kissing happens all over the body. Kiss her body and eventually she's going to figure out where she wants to be kissed the most. Most importantly don't try to convince her. People have to discover what they enjoy on their own.
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replied April 4th, 2010
Yes. Very seriously if you can just start kissing all over her, like her breasts and just start slowly moving down she''s gonna get turned on and she''ll want it. If she lets you get far enough kiss ONLY around her vagina and she what gets her going. For me personally I like the teasing with the kissing around it more than actually being eaten out. Everyones different but its like foreplay. It gets you more ready and you want it. After you do that alittle just test the boundries and try to go further.
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replied August 10th, 2011
Two years ago I was having problem with my girlfriend. She refused to give me blowjobs. I was confused. I didn't know how to convince her. Since I didn't know the solution, I've searched the internet and found this incredible website with fantastic tips about how to persuade your wife of girlfriend how to give you a blowjob. I was sitting there for hours reading all those tips and I was really amazed. The most important thing is that it worked for me! My girlfriend started giving me blowjobs whenever I want. You should really check it out! It will 100% help you
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replied January 5th, 2012
Well most efficient way is to give her one. That way she will start loosing the barrier about bj being gross. And if she thinks receiving one is gross then its a though challenge. In that case, like dude above said, start kissing her all over the body (and of course let her do the same) and it will kinda come into place. And again like dude above said there is a book about the topic wich might help also, google for Jcks Blowjob Persuasion.
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replied January 26th, 2012
i have to agree i thought giving a bj was gross but in the heat of the moment i tryed it n i liked it idk y but giving my bf a bj turned me on how he was liking it n made me enjoy it even more, but of course woman love to recieve it back makes it go both ways n agree we should be open to trying new things its fun!!!
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replied May 5th, 2012
First time when I asked my lady to receive it up her ass, she slapped the sh*t out of me. Yeah, I guess it sounds funny, but I really wanted to try anal sex and she was totally against it. Then I was searching Google like you guys and I hit on this book called Jack's Anal Persuasion. My God, that was the best thing that I could read in whole universe. Seriously, now me and my girlfriend (same one who slapped me) are only doing anal sex. Now, she adores anal sex. You should give it a try, I'm pretty sure it can help you too!
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