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Q: how to ask a girl out
asked by: glovan7 on March 25th, 2008
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Hi. i am 14 years old and turning 15, i have never had a girlfriend, i am short and very shy, i can talk to girls but when i try to ask them out i say i am going to do it, but never end up doing it, how should i circumvent(avoid) this????????????? i have asked a girl out once and she said her parents would not let her should i go ask her parents or.....
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EddyMc
replied on June 22nd, 2008
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Your height has nothing to do with it so forget about that its all about confidence, if you go over babbeling 9 times out of 10 it will be a no.

How you ask a girl out is simple you approch her chat for a bit and then ask.

Its that simple and you have already done it in the past so you can do it again!, what you are doing is overthinking how you are going to ask her the more you think the less confident you will be, in you mind think "she will say yes", "I'm a great guy" thinking this to yourself will give you a little boost in confidence which will help with the anxiety you are feeling, don't think about the question just ask it, go over strike up a conversation for a bit then ask.


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greenr702
replied on September 26th, 2008
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it amazes me that 250 people have looked at this topic, but only 1 fella could lend a helping hand


glovan...find a girly friend that you are interested in, and think about what you hve in common- during conversation- talk about movies- and talk about a movie that just came out...ask if she'd like to see it with you 2night- look her in the eyes when you say that. that shows that your confident with youself, and it's a respect thing as well.

or one of your buddies probably aready has a g/f...so talk to him, find out if his g/f has a friend...set up a double date...something like that is easy these days givin Myspace and facebook n such.

hope i was of some help to ya
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Marc209
replied on October 23rd, 2008
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Theres a good chance the 'confidence' plan may not work out. Girls at that age are mainly concerned with looks. If you are lacking in this department, give it 2-3 more years.
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