Hi.. I'm male. 21 years.. Im just curious about anal sex. Id never do intercourse before (vaginal or anal). I have read all info that sex is very fun. But I'd rather choose to save my 'virginty' (if boy have) until marriage. I'm just old fashioned boy maybe..

Okay, im just curious about anal sex. And for now, i want to gather more information about this kind of sex. I'm not talking about how i do it or like it. I read it alot. But there still in my mind: "how safe is"... I search through out the internet and come to the end of question that cannot i solve..

1. Is that safe to do it entire of the women life (you can say, having anal sex at 25, three times a week, included as sex variation along with vaginal intercourse). Is there any change of women body? (i mean anus muscle)? Of course doing it with safest way (like more lube, "just" penis, condom and no toys). I cant find any article for further reading.. they just said, "having bodily damage and so on"

2. does anus muscle will loose their capability to hold on? I mean, it cannot control to having bladder?

3. if the anus muscle tear, is there any way to fix it?

According to my knowledg, some women like to play at anus (and some other not), playing it with the tounge or fingering.

4. Then, can it deliver bad effect to man's tounge? I know there is alot of bacteria. How safe if I do it (with my tounge)? I'm affraid to having bad effect because of alot of bacteria in my mouth..

5. How safe (for woman) if i lick her anus and then her vagina? As far as I know, thrusting penis to anus and then to vagina is very dangerous. (Does it lead to cervix cancer?) Do i need some like mouth wash before I do her vagina to kill any bacteria left in my tounge/mouth? Or it is just fine?

And about women masturbation. Yes, I will ask same question.

6. How safe if woman do her anus, rubbing and thrusting her hole, then come to her clitoris or even thrusting her vulva? is it safe? Some of my friend told me that sometimes she doesnt really care about it. She is in "very good mood", and she didnt realize that she doing her anus and vagina.

7. Does antibacteria to clean the finger (after fingering the anus) is good for vagina?

Sorry for asking so much question. Thanks before for all the reply. Im just curious about it, and maybe some of us too.. Is anybody know about a good link for further reading (how safe is) related to this topic, please share us... I want to have good, fun, and safe sex.


Best Regards.