| dineshsingh wrote: |
I am 19 and never had sex before.... I am dating the man of my dreams who I truly love and I really wanna have sex with him.... we've been together for 4 months and no sex yet.... he tells me he loves me and he will have sex with me only when I tell him I am ready....... and I am ready.
the only thing that scares me is how does it feel to have a penis inside you? what if I dont like it?
can any girl here describe to me what it feels like when a penis penetrates you?
does it hurt?
does it feel cold, warm?
does it tickles?
does it feel moisty?
does it make u feel butterflies in your lower abdomen like when u get nervous? |
It's great to wait until YOU are ready! I didn't have sex until I was 20 and had been dating for six months!
Q. Does it hurt?
A. It should not hurt unless you have a very thick hymen. Most women break their hymen long before sex! Make sure you are very lubricated AND that his penis is lubricated! Be relaxed and comfortable; being nervous can tighten the vaginal entrance and make sex very painful and even impossible!
Q. Does it feel cold, warm?
A. If there's enough lube, it often feels a little cold right at first and then warms up and feels hot!
Q. Does it tickles?
A. Lol! Nope, I've never had sex tickle!
Q. Does it feel moisty?
A. Yes, if you're lubricated properly, sex is a very moist experience - messy even! Lay down a towel.
Q. Does it make you feel butterflies in your lower abdomen like when you get nervous?
A. Yes, for me it does. It causes a spreading tingling butterfly feeling that takes over my entire stomach and legs

That first moment when the penis slides in is extremely good in my opinion.