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little_lele89 Experienced User
May 15th, 2008
Sad ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years.. hes my best friend. my friends and his and his are mine. everythings always great.
about a year ago he was screwing around over the internet.. sending naked photos back and forth with random girls.. and having conversations with them.. i found out.. i was hurt but we both wanted to work through it, and i would tell he was sorry.
i feel stable in my relationship.. but a few days ago i wanted to be sure.. i created a fake email and added my boyfriend pretending to be some hot girl cracking onto him to see what he would do..
i was shattered he was flirting and asking for photos, when i sent some he was commenting how hot the photos were. i asked if he would ever have sex.. he said i was being bad and that he couldnt say with a wink Wink
he was asking questions and flirting and saying things that just broke my heart..
i dont know what to do. i confronted him.. and he said he was so sorry he didnt think but i have no idea what to do..
i feel so let down.
i love him but im so hurt
how much is enough?? Crying or Very sad
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worrywart01
replied May 15th, 2008
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you know, thats a personal decision..you have to decide for yourself what you're willing to put up with, and if he knows he can get away with this and just apologize and you'll be over it he will continue to do it...if this is something you're willing to deal with in your relationship then thats your decision, but lack of trust in any relationship will ultimately destroy it...stand up for yourself, be assertive..let him know that this is NOT ok and if he wants to be with you then stop screwing around bc you deserve to be treated better than that...let him know youre serious..dont let him get away with "i'm sorry" and just forget about it...if he really cares about you he would think twice before doing anything he knows would hurt you, and if not..then he's a waste of your time

best of luck
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