I know it should be an easy answer but I
don't know. There are times when I just
can't take things. Me and my bf have so
many problems it seems like. I am also 17
and still in school my daughter is a lil
over 4 weeks old. A few days before I had
her I found out my best friend killed
himeself I couldn't make it to the funeral
b/c I went into labor. I never really had
the chance to say goodbye.
I have to decide if I want to live with my
bf which I will be unhappy and
uncomftorble or with my parents where I
will be unhappy but comfortable. We are
trying to get our own place and will
hopefully have one by the end of the
month. There was a week where I didn't
have an appetite, I barely ever sleep b/c
she doesn't sleep through the night that
well, then I have to get up with her in
the morning. Some days it just seems like
I don't want to do it anymore. I just want
to give up I don't have any thoughts about
doing anything to my daughter. I just want
to know how do I know? there is just so
much I have to deal with who shouldI call
about it, my obgyn? Someone help!
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Catch25
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Mar 2008 Posts: 24 Location: ,
Posted: 03-12-08 20:34pm
Just stay calm and remember that the
infant doesn't care where you go as long
as it has it's mother.You can talk to
anyone who you feel will listen. Many
people prefer to talk over the internet so
that they don't have to look someone in
the eyes. My advice is to talk to either
a best friend or Doctor. A best friend
you can talk to in confidence and nobody
can understand PPD more than an OBGYN (who
is required to keep your secrets). I have
had just regular depression problems and
didn't talk to anybody; i turned into
someone i don't like. Don't make my
mistake!!! Be open, talk, the PPD will go
by so much quicker.
