Ending the relationship with him does not keep him from being a parent. If he excludes himself, you can't do anything about that. But, you can make him financially supportive and it seems that you have that part going. You can't make him answer the phone. As for your personal life if hes not involved what does it matter? Just don't keep him away from his son if he wants to be an active father.

i have the same problem i have been wih my baby father for almost 4 years he has never treated me well at all he has hitme pt e down all the above but for some reason i go back but i think it is finaly over now he moved to flordia to work i live in baltimore i ust think maybe its a good thing cause now i can relly get over him but the ony thing he keeps calling my house asken me questions about my personal life bu i tell him its none of his concern h says i have is daughter an he wants to no what we are doing idk please help

i m assuming he still want you back. you have to be firm but nice about it. tell him y'all relationship is all about y'all child. your moving to another state, he should get the picture.
when you call him and he doesnt answer the phone, leave a message about the baby and let that be it. don't let him stress you out in any way. my friend is going through this right now, and i went through it also. now my son is 13y.o and i am so glad i dont have to talk to that guy any more.

I was with my babys dad for 5 years and i just recently ended it 6 months ago. He doesn't understand that i dont want him he was so mean to me and never helped out with our sons. So i thought the best thing for my sons and i was to end it i was doing it bymyself anyways and i didnt love him like i used too. Now i am getting him for child support and he tells me that i am selfish. How is that being selfish since we broke he hasn't given me one thing thats why i am getting child support he thinks that i am taking him away i am not because i very much so want him there for our sons. Does anyone have any advice for me?

when he found out that i was having his kid , he was happy until a girl had got in the way. He told his whole family that it wasn't his kid. I'm facing this all alone and i want to dtae but i can't because all i think about his him. i'm lost and confused!! please help me!!

im having same issue got with my now ex boyfriend an got preg at first he wanted to have kids an b a dad but things got weird he said his dad had a stroke an went back to new york an stay would come see me a few times while i was preg said he want to b here an wanted to send money but never was or did always made excuses y he couldnt move back an y he couldnt send money i lost my job so other then family helpin i had nothing he knew this last time he visited was a month b4 i had my daughter he said he had phnemonia so missed her birth and has yet to see her even when she was in the hospital 3 weeks old with rsv she stopped breathing 3 times once while i was on the phone with him said he couldnt get a flight out such crap shes 4 mo now still not seen her just empty promises on how he will come down soon we broke up in may im going after him for child support but he has threatened in the past to take her from me what should i do?

Gurl same bad things happened to me he can't take your kid away and take that off your shoulders I have a 10 month old and her dad is not in her life yes it makes me sad that he is taking that away from my daughter but your the one responsible for that little baby and you will see even if the court does not award you a reasonable amount at least you know that you have support for your child food, clothes, you just have to get all the helpful resources in your community every one out there is willing to help you just have to go find it. Stay at home moms are willing to watch your baby if you need to go to work for cheap you just have to pull yourself together because he is fine and not thinking but no one other than himself and you should just take him to child support becasue he has nothing to put against you...