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Q: How do I get over him?
asked by: cutie333 on June 13th, 2009
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Let me just say that i liked this guy for over a year now because we had classes together last year and i noticed that he would stare at me all the time, that's how i started noticing him so i told him that i liked him on msn and he said that he had a g.f but he would still stare at me after, or sometimes when i walk past him, he won't look at me until i turn around to look at him and i find him looking back at me.

okay so i danced with my crush at prom, he was the one who grabbed me from behind and started dancing with me. While we were dancing; he took my hand and folded his into mine; he kept rubbing my arms and when we slow danced; he kept rubbing my back up and down slowly and slowly ran his hands down my butt.So i was getting the feeling that he liked me too since he was staring at me for most of the night and i was the only girl he danced with. so 2 days after prom, my friend spoke to him and i was brought up into the convo because she kept saying that we looked hot while dancing then he said:"ahaha, i don't want to give the wrong intentions btw, she's a cool person but yea..." then later on he said that he wanted to have fun. so i understood the part when he said he wanted to have fun, i mean we danced but the part i don't understand is: what was the whole "hand folding" about? to me, that seemed personal, but then again, i could be taking it the wrong way. so later on that day, i sent him a msg on msn saying:"hey, i just saw the convo with you and my friend and i just wanted to say that i did not get the wrong impression,not to be rude or anything, i had fun but i danced with other guys and you weren't the one who made my night." i only said that because i didn't want to look desperate and he was the one who made my night. so i felt really bad and i decided to talk to him at school. so i went up to him and said: "hey, can i talk to you for a minute?" then he said: "sure" so i said: okay, i don't mean to sound annoying but about that msg i sent you on msn about prom, i didn't mean to say it like that." then he said smiling: it's okay, it's okay, who cares. then i said: no, i only said that because i didn't want to look desperate. but i didn't mean it." then he said: it's okay. then i said(blushing): i know this might not matter to you,(then i put my hands to my face and said "omg") then he smiled and said: "this must be hard for you to say" then i laughed and said: i'm gonna be honest with you, but you were the one that made my night" then he was smiling for the whole time then i said: i know you don't like me like that but i just wanted to be honest so yea...then he kept smiling then he said: ok well thanx...have a nice day, then i said: okay, thanx you too. so i guess i have to get over him for real this time i just don't know how i'm going to get over him. don't get me wrong, he's a sweet person, he seemed shy when i was talking to him.
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loren111
replied on June 14th, 2009
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i see your quite young and its young love bless,
and i understand were your coming from most boys and girls go frew it. they like a boy and the boy dont but to be honest that isnt always true. deep down they may like you but dont want to say it or hold it in more because they have a gf. i see you feel lyk your going to get knowere and your confused, well all i can say is if you think you might have a chance and really like him, keep going till you get him, but if you feel this is jst going to waste your time just try block him out of your mind becuase thats what i did. everytime the boy i liked would come into my head id think lauren his a waste of time move on you can do better and go and enjoy myself wit my friends and gradually you get over it and while your moving on u may find the real person for u x well anyway i wish you the best of luck and hope if you dont get this boy u will find someone else just as special tc x Smile
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ameriguat
replied on June 14th, 2009
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O young love. All I have to say is that there is MANY more where that came from and young boys like that want attention. No offense, but he's just not that into you. I suggest you get that book "He's just not that into you" because if you don't figure that out at a young age, then it won't get any easier when you get older.
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ServiceU
replied on July 4th, 2009
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i would call in infractuating. it's good to experience this so you would know the difference between it and love. both of those feelings makes you feel good inside.
you will get over him because you life will go on and he will fade away.
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