Okay this may sound very stupid but i made a "pros and cons" list of my current boyfriend.. i had about 4 pros and like 12-15 cons. that has got to say something right?! anyway... i lost my virginity to him and hes a really nice guy but he is verrrry overbearing and verrrryyy jealous. he always tells me what to do and never lets me go out and do what i want to. he also has to know where i am and what i am doing at every point in time. he doesnt let me hang out with the opposite sex because he thinks something is going to happen. he has gotten better because i recently broke up with him and told him that if he continues on acting the way he has i dont want to be with him anymore... but keep in mind i have broken up with him every single summer since we have been dating so that is about three times and he doesnt want to get hurt anymore.. when i last broke up with him, he had told me that if i break up with him again that means he is completely done with me and never wants to speak to me ever again. i also have another problem... my ex boyfriend and my current boyfriend HATE each other and i still care about my ex alot. i want to hang out with him before he goes off to college and that is reallyyyyy soon. i want to break up with my current boyfriend just so i could see what will happen between myself and my ex because we have always talked to each other via text messages and on the computer and we will always have feeling for each other.. i just think that if i still have feeling for someone after being with someone else for 3 years... there as got to be something there still... please write back when you see this... im in desperate need of help... thank you