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Q: How do i break up with my boyfriend of almost three years?!
asked by: summer0xlove on August 16th, 2009
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Okay this may sound very stupid but i made a "pros and cons" list of my current boyfriend.. i had about 4 pros and like 12-15 cons. that has got to say something right?! anyway... i lost my virginity to him and hes a really nice guy but he is verrrry overbearing and verrrryyy jealous. he always tells me what to do and never lets me go out and do what i want to. he also has to know where i am and what i am doing at every point in time. he doesnt let me hang out with the opposite sex because he thinks something is going to happen. he has gotten better because i recently broke up with him and told him that if he continues on acting the way he has i dont want to be with him anymore... but keep in mind i have broken up with him every single summer since we have been dating so that is about three times and he doesnt want to get hurt anymore.. when i last broke up with him, he had told me that if i break up with him again that means he is completely done with me and never wants to speak to me ever again. i also have another problem... my ex boyfriend and my current boyfriend HATE each other and i still care about my ex alot. i want to hang out with him before he goes off to college and that is reallyyyyy soon. i want to break up with my current boyfriend just so i could see what will happen between myself and my ex because we have always talked to each other via text messages and on the computer and we will always have feeling for each other.. i just think that if i still have feeling for someone after being with someone else for 3 years... there as got to be something there still... please write back when you see this... im in desperate need of help... thank you Smile
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ServiceU
replied on August 20th, 2009
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if you love your boyfriend you wont break up with him just to see if something will happen between your ex you had/have feelings for years ago.
that would be so wrong!!!! what if you break up with your b/f and nothing happens with the ex. what will you do after that?
break up with him only if you dont want to be with him any longer.
your current b/f has to get his insecurities under control because he's creating an unhealthy relationship.
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xomollyxo7
replied on August 21st, 2009
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No, he is your ex for a reason. It is normal for teen boys to be jealous. That's going to happen, however if he is overbearing then you will need to sit down and have a talk with him about that. If you love your current boyfriend, quit hurting him. That is very painful, and not something to just throw around. Only use the words break up when you actually are positively sure, and when you definitely don't want to be in a relationship with the boy any longer. I can see why he is threatening you to never talk to you again the next time you break up with him, because he is hurt from it happening so many times. This boy obviously cares about you a lot, and I don't think it is very fair that you talk to your ex via text and computer. Atleast, if he doesn't know about it. Let your current boyfriend know about the feelings you have for your ex.
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