I met my hubby when we were 16. I like him as a friend but was never really attracted to him in that way. Our friendship continued and was rock solid from day 1. When I was 19 he came over for a visit. I cannot tell you why this happened other than it being love. I saw him for the 1st time. He looked so amazing and gorgeous and I was shocked at how attracted and drawn to him I was. I mean I saw and talked to him all the time for 3 years already. It was like a feeling or a nudge deep inside of me that was completely aware and awakened by him. Shortly after that we began dating and it was like any new couple. Lust and hunger and happiness. We were already so close as friends that our feelings just increased. We dated for a month when he died.
I got a call that he was on life support and they didnt know if he would make it. He went into seizures from huffing butane, so it was drug induced. They had to shock him 4 times. he died and was brought back. he remained in a coma for 10 days and the doctors didnt detect any brain activity. We didnt know how he would come back.
I never felt so lost in my entire life. My heart was ripped out. Then I knew he was the one. God told me that he was going to be ok and that we still had time. I just couldnt understand why he would be taken when we just started to be together after all those years. So I had to lose my love to know he was the one.
he woke up after 10 days and didnt remember a week before the accident. He acted like a small child for 2-3 months. He was different than the man I fell in love with.
Its been 2 1/2 yrs since then and he is back to his normal self. His short term memory is pretty much shot. Other than that hes the same.
So thats how I knew. Cant wait to hear more stories!
