first of all..i HOPE you're using protection...i've said this before and I'll say it again 15 is VERY young to be having sex..are you prepared to become a father? condoms are not fool proof just remember this...now to answer your question..the only way of telling whether or not the girl is a virgin is by having an intact hymen..however, this also is not 100%proof bc many girls have their hymen broken long before losing their virginity just from bike riding, horse riding etc...a girl bleeding does not signify that shes a virgin..so basically what I'm saying is, you're just gonna have to trust her and take her word for it...protect yourself from stds

yea thanks i got what u said, and dont worry about the protecion....but about (tampons) i dont really know the right spelling but i hope you know what i mean....does it break the girl hymen???

Tampons can DEFINITLY break the hymen. I know from experience. What I can tell you is that there is absolutely no way of telling if a girl is a virgin or not by how she looks or feels down there. Or if she has a hymen or not. The hymen is just a piece of skin covering the opening of the vagina and tampons, riding bikes, gymnastics, sitting, stretching, almost anything can break it.

thanks alot, what about medical tests can you know whether the girl is virgin or no?...and through medical test if you would know whether the girl is virgin or no, can you know who broke her virginity? i mean is there anything that can show?

There is no medical test for virginity. There is no way to find out who broke the hymen unless the girl is willing to tell you. Then it's no way of knowing if she's telling the truth.

You'd be better off LEAVING THE SUBJECT ALONE & DROPPING IT.

The only thing that could possibly show that a girl is not a virgin is if she has had a child. Doctors can tell ONLY if she had the child vaginally (the cervix of a person who has had a child looks different from the cervix of someone who has had not had a child). Even a scar on the belly could be from something other than a c-section. Other than that, if a girl has not had a child, then there is no way of telling if she is a virgin or not or WHO took her virginity. Why is it so important to you? If you don't trust the girl, then you don't belong with her. And she deserves someone who trusts her.

thanks alot motherofhighspiritedones, and no its just something personal...thanks again

How about you are disgusting...you are how old? 23...having sex with a 15 year old. You should go to jail you nasty hog.

Bangbangbabygirl,

He never gave his age so you are only assuming that he is 23. Did you take the number 86 from his username and decided that since this is 2009 that he MUST be 23?

86 could be the 8th month and 6th day...it could be anything....

And I could make a few assumptions about your username, however I will not.


~Zig

hey guys....
its nt always the trust thing///wht if v spoil our lives being fr one...wht if d gal plays wid us.//actullyy...i 2 wnted to kno if mah gal was a virgin...bt lukin at the replies of all...mah mind has chnged thnxx evryone..

Back to the age topic. None of y'all know how old he is so don't go guessing that he's some old perv. And have you guys ever noticed it says junior for his name? He could be a year or two older than her. Also. Y'all are way off topic. Answer the question and be done with it. They dontneed your guys' opinions because they've probably heard all of it before and obviously don't seem to care.
Thanks to those who gave helpful information.

My advice to you would be to ask her and trust her with the answer she gives you. If not get her checked out at the doctors lol I doubt you guys will be wanting to do that though.