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Q: How can i get pregnant ?

asked by: Spoiledprincess on November 16th, 2008

New User

I got married two months ago September 26 way before that my husband and i have been trying to have a baby. I cant... Since Agust we have had unprotected sex every 2 days and im guessing on ovulation too. i know all sorts of things of ovulation and stuff but i do notice i ovulate because i see the good egg white cervical mucus. Barely this past month all month of october we had sex everyother day and on ovulation. Two days ago i felt real sick like dizzy nauceous and i just noticed that i have blue veins on my breast. i am a little bit more hungry than usual. i touched my cervix and i noticed it was low and soft. But what dissapoints me that... im getting CRAMPS!!! not too hard but low cramps. im getting dissapointed i wanna give up on trying its been 3 to 4 months of unprotected sex. my period will arrive november 22 what do u guys think that im pregnant??? ill keep u posted if i ... get my period Embarassed

or not.

Thank you so much and please help me!!! kiss

Replies(6)

emmalouise92

replied on November 16th, 2008

Supporter

Well cramps can be a sign too so dont be too disappointed, but it does take on average a healthy couple 1 year to concieve so you have plenty of time!! You could be pregnant but i wouldnt want to get your hopes up just in case, but good luck!! I hope it happens for you soon!!

melissab1982

replied on November 16th, 2008

New User

Im not an expert but i have been pregnant before so here is my opinion and advice. Do you chart your bbt? Or use opk tests? If not then you dont know for sure that you are even ovulating. you can get EWCM even if you dont ovulate and you can a period too. The only way to know for sure if you are ovulating is to chart your bbt. If you are not sure how to do that go to www.fertilityfriend.com and you can set up a chart there. They will tell you when you ovulate, but basically you will know if your temp goes higher and stays higher because that would be your luteal phase.
Also, you may be pregnant and still have cramps, sometimes the cramps feel exactly like AF so keep your hopes up!!!!
Well good luck and let us know what happens.

gabby734

replied on November 16th, 2008

Experienced User

well my hubby and I tried to get pregnant for 6 months straight, I wanted to give up after 3 or 4 months because I got preg with my first baby so fast I thought it would be that way again, but dont.... sometimes it takes a little longer. When we were ttc, I went out and bought the 20 ovulation strips from answer, I documented my periods for each month and the day I began ovulating... My last period had been March 13th, and around April 10th I had the worse cramps you could think of, I could have swore AF was coming... I continued to have those cramps until the day my period had come and past, around the 20th I took a hpt and I was pregnant... so really the cramps can go either way

melissab1982

replied on November 16th, 2008

New User

gabby734-

Im so glad you posted that. I have 1 child and am trying for 2nd, it seems like it is taking forever although its only been 3 months. like you, i conceived very soon with the first and i expected that now, but now im wondering whats up. i chart my bbt and all but nothing is happening.. wish me luck your story helped me also!!!

Spoiledprincess

replied on November 17th, 2008

New User

thank u girls

Thank you ladies for your help!! yes today i just burst out crying its so cute seeing girls with big bellies and i cant still i should be fertile but idk maybe im doing wrong lol i did buy ovulation kits but i dint know how to use them i would pee on the cup and it wouldnt see any lines or sometimes just one. and im always hot so my bbt i cant take it cuz i sleep' all day so when i wake up its hard for me to measure my temperature though specially that im always hot even on the winter i have the airconditioner on also what i think that might be my problem that im 19 years old and i am overweight. i weigh 235 pounds im 5'8 but maybe also my weight is what is not helping me to get pregnant. what i noticed that my cramps are different than usual they come and go not real frequent like they were before. Razz

LuvBeingAMommy23

replied on November 19th, 2008

Experienced User

Hey Hun! Just Keep Your Head Up And Dont Give Up It Will Happen When It Is Ment To I Promise.. We Tried For Our Second Child For 4 Month Before I Got Pregnant And It append When I Lest Expected It..I Was GettingW orried CAuse My First Pregnancy I Got Pregnant In A month.. I Know Crazy Right ..It Will Happen.. Good Luck And The Cramping Could BE A Great Sign... Keep Us Posted.. BABY DUST TO YOU HUN

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