I think your real problem may be anxiety or obsessive compulsive disorder and you have focused on HIV. But here are the tips you asked for.You may want to talk to a psychologist about this obsession if it persists.

Here's How To Use A Condom:

1. Most condoms are made of latex so check the expiry date before use.
2. If your condom is in a box it most likely comes with a leaflet - worth reading.
3. Open the condom wrapper but don't tear it with teeth or use scissors. You do not want to perforate the condom- that gives no protection at all!
4. Hold the teat end of the condom between your forefinger and thumb.
5. If needed, pull back the foreskin to expose the head of the penis.
6. roll the condom the length of the erect penis.
7. NEVER use oil-based lubricants with a condom as it will disintegrate in moments. Always use water or silicone based lubricants.
8. After sex withdraw the penis while it is still erect making sure you hold the condom on while withdrawing.
9. Never re-use a condom; dispose of it after use.
10. Men with a latex allergy could consider using a natural membrane but these are less effective in terms of preventing pregnancy.

As for blood.
As long as there is no transmission of blood to blood or blood to body fluid,then you are safe. In other words,never exchange needles or have sex without condoms as minute traces of blood can be found in body fluids.

you say take off condom with finger and after put the skin back of penis head if your same hand which you use for taking off condom use for condom then is it the risk of hiv.
condom is risk of hiv or not like if we take off condom with hand or same hand touch to penis head is this risk of hiv.
pls me confuse homerx help me i wanna stress out from this problem

If you are removing the condom then obviously the sex is over.Wash your hands and penis or shower.
Truly, I think you are overly anxious about this and may need to speak with a professional.Talk to your doctor about possibly seeking some help by talking to a professional or go to the free health clinic and ask to speak with someone regarding HIV and safe sex practices..good luck.You will be fine.

thanx sir can u tell me can my anxiety be treatable.pls u help me a lot i am thanx to you from my heart

how r u homerx. i saw blood on door it was not red.it was light brown.suddnely i touch this blood with my hand there r sore on my hand can i get hiv infection.
last time u told me i have to see for proffesional about hiv.you r not proffesional.i trust u sir. tell me why i get this panic attcks about hiv.what should i do to remove these things

Panic attacks are very common..I will move this post to the panic disorder forum.Good luck and I was glad to help.

sukh_bnl , now that I have moved this to the anxiety/stress section,hopefully someone here can direct you .If you have a doctor ,maybe they can prescribe you Xanax or something for anxiety..that might help a lot. Good luck to you.
HomerX

thanx homerx thanx a lot

one question is that i saw a blood on door it was light brown i touch it with my hand ther r sore on my haand can i effect or this ismy anxiety

its anxiety...you cant get HIV that easily.Blood that has been exposed to oxygen ,even if it had the AIDS virus in it,can not give you HIV unless it is blood to blood transmission and that must occur within seconds of leaving the body..

thanx homerx i pray for god you live long time.you help me a lot
i have one question more that if i have any sore in muth and i kiss to girl can i get hiv from her salvia.

any risk if we kiss to any girl

pls reply me

you cant get HIV from kissing.You would both have to be bleeding into each others mouths..

homerx i have confusion about oral sex.if we have sore on penis and effected girl sucks my penis. if her salvia touch my penis sore can i effected from hiv or there should be blood in her mouth.then i can effect.thanxx

oral sex is low risk but not no risk. So yes,you can get HIV from oral sex but it is very difficult.If you are uncut then the chances are higher. Remember,any sex is risky.The only 100% way to avoid HIV is to have no sex..and we all know that isn't realistic. There are also condoms for oral sex called dental dams. Not very sexy but they work.

i know we can get hiv from oral sex but my question is diffrent. i ask u if we have cut or sore on penis and any girl do blowjob for me can i get hiv from salvia

i know if there r blood in her mouth this is diffrent.but i am asking about salvia. if salvia touch our penis cut can we effected from hiv