Hello. I am new here.

I am a 28 year old male living in the UK and 4 weeks ago I had sex with a woman who has just told me that since sleeping with me, she has discovered she has HIV. We used protection, but I am still understandably worried.

I am thinking back to that night, and although I know the condom didn't split, I remember seeing either mine or her fluids at the base of my penis where the condom had ridden up slightly. I guess my concern is that when I took it off, I could have transferred some of this to my tip and therefore possibly have been infected. Is this possible? Or am i worrying about nothing?

I intend to get tested anyway, but I know it is a bit soon just yet. If anyone can help ease my worries I would be very greatful! I am going out of my mind!!