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Q: HIV from fingering ?

asked by: drrrr on January 9th, 2009

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as it says ppl. I am just very concerned about contracting hiv since there has been a time where I once fingered a girl and sucked her breasts without knowing if she was hiv positive or not.in addition to that, she also gave me oral sex without a condom. the truth is, I did not at any time have sex with her and I am just very concerned about the matter.I just recently started out into some business ventures and is also expecting a son from my faithful girlfriend, which has had me stressed out at times and anxious at another. It has been approx two years since Ihave had this involvement and I am only now having symptoms. (ever since awaiting hiv results) I just need some peace of mind on the matter and I am quite sure that there are many professionals/ well educated ppl here that may be able to help me . please tell me that I have not infected my girlfriend and that my baby will be born free of std's lol

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drrrr

replied on January 9th, 2009

New User

also..... can ohl also be a sign of stress/ anxiety??

homerx

replied on January 11th, 2009

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Re: HIV from fingering ?

drrrr wrote:

please tell me that I have not infected my girlfriend and that my baby will be born free of std's lol

I don't know that I would be LOLing at this point..sorry but no one here can tell you that you haven't infected your girl and child at this point because you yourself do not know.
When you had unprotected sexual activity with that woman,so did your girlfriend and unborn child.I hate to be so blunt but it is true.You really should never ever have any kind of body fluid swapping with any one except your monogamous partner unless all tests have been taken and no diseases found.It is no laughing matter.Get tested,my friend ASAP. Get the HIV/AIDS test and all the STD tests and cross your fingers and get on your knees and pray,whether you believe in God or not, that you haven't infected your girl and child with a deadly or incurable disease..
AIDS can be spread with out any sexual fluids being shared.Cuts,minute abrasions on the fingers or penis,mouth or vagina can all spread AIDS and a number of other diseases including Heraclitus B among others.Very scary and very serious.Get tested and if I were you I would not have unprotected sex with my girl until I got all the results and they came back clean.How will you feel if you give your girl and child AIDS or some other sexual disease just because you decided to play flippant and foolish one night? You say ..and I quote..."I did not at any time have sex with her and I am just very concerned about the matter." I have to differ with you.And I think your girlfriend will as well if it ever comes out. You DID have sex with her.You may not have put your penis in her vagina but you DID have sex with her.
Get tested. Now.

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