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Q: HIV danger to midwife
asked by: engelrani on May 13th, 2009
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Hi everyone, I'm not pregnant but I was hoping someone on here could answer a question. My woman from my rape survivors group is HIV positive and currently expecting her first child. Right now she is 8 months pregnant and is planning a home birth. She is a hippie and very natural in the medications she uses (she takes herbals instead of drugs for her HIV). She told me she's had trouble finding midwife, once they find out she has HIV they back out and tell her to go to a hospital. She confessed that she has lied to her current midwife and not disclosed her medical condition. When I asked her why the other midwives back out, she just said they didn't respect her wishes and were pushing the corporate machine of hospitals. I know who her current midwife is, she used to live in my apartment building and I've met her few times. Is there danger to the midwife, I don't want to backstab my friend but if the midwife is in danger, I'm going to warn her. I know this is a weird question to post here but this is the only section of the forum that midwives or those experienced using midwives would frequent. Thanks.
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suewil
replied on May 15th, 2009
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she needs HELP
HIV POSTIVE is very hard to fing some one to help can i ask if she was raped why keep the baby that was from her raperst cause she can pass it to the baby.. She needs to go and see the doctor and she or he can help i hope everthing gos ok with her and the baby and she needs to go to hospital caude i think the baby needs to be tested. good luck
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DarkDesire85
replied on June 16th, 2009
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A person with hiv is extremely vunerable to medical problems at normal dailly life so with child birth im sure her chances of problems to her or baby are extemelly high she and baby need to be near the doctor when she gives birth to be safer,im pretty sure this is what the problem with home birth midwives is not that they are predudice in anyway.I would hope you would explain to your friend that by lieing to the currant midwife she is putting her unborn baby in a huge amount of danger.mothers and babys are extremely vunerable to infection at birth when the mother has hiv as it effects her immune system and babys are born with their mothers immunity as you know our homes are full of germs and hospitals are extemely clean sterile places and im sure she and baby would be keep in solitude to minimise the risk of infection to them both i hope you can explain this to her and that she will listen good luck Smile.Im not sure the midwife is in acctual danger as she will wear gloves but she certainlly has a right to be informed and in the end by telling her you would be helping your friend aswell
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DarkDesire85
replied on June 16th, 2009
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hi again you question had me wondering alot about more possible reasons why she cant have a home birth so i did some reasearch and it seems the answer above is pretty much right but the sites i have found also have much more info for your friend i cannot paste any links so just search for (can you have a home birth if you have hiv)i hope you get some good information to help your friend Smile one important fact i found is that the baby is most likely to become infected with HIV during delivery so if your friend was to have a cesarian she would greatly reduce the chances of infecting the baby there is also some medication she can take to reduce the chances of infecting the baby i realise she doesnt like taking it but if it spares her baby a serious illness i would hope she will at least consider it. i really really hope you can help her because i did see an article saying that in canada if a mother refuses to allow anti hiv drugs to be administered after the birth she can be forced to by the authorites not sure if this would apply to your friend as i dont know your country or your laws on the subject
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DarkDesire85
replied on June 16th, 2009
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what i meant was if she doesnt allow them to give anti hiv drugs to the baby they can force her,they cannot force her herself to take anyhing
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