HIV contraction with condom ?

Ok...a week ago I haVe intercourse wit a gurl that gets around. A lot sexually..I use condoms..eventually I find fluids inside the condom before I ejaculate..wondering if its mines or hers..if hers what are the chances of me contracting anything? We kissed a couple days later I get a bad cough and a sinus problem and some discomfort down below..bumps on the back of my throat wall its just now going away..no holes were in the condoms...but I found myself having a discharge when only twice since intercourse(had a slight one previously) if its her fluids that found itself in my condom and I might b having these symptoms from her what are the chances of me contracting hiv if she has it