sunflower157,
Unfortunately, "arthritis" is often used as a waste basket diagnosis, when the physician doesn't know what else could be causing the problem.
If you are not seeing an orthopedic surgeon, you should be.
You may have a femoral acetabular impingement (FAI). This is a diagnosis that is fairly new, so many established physicians do not know about it. But, it is a cause of hip pain in young persons.
Again, if you are not seeing an orthopedic surgeon, you would probably be well served to be evaluated by one. If you are, you might ask about FAI as a cause of your hip pain. It can be diagnosed based on examination and plain hip x-rays.
Good luck.