His daily sodium intake should not exceed 2,400 mg (just over a teaspoon). Losing the extra weight is going to be key in lowering his blood pressure- really encourage him to stick to his diet and weight loss goals. While it sounds like your diet is already pretty healthy, you may want to consider the DASH diet as it was designed specifically to lower blood pressure. The National Health Institute publishes a free online guide to the DASH diet.
Your husband is pretty young, so I would not be surprised if the weight loss eliminated his high blood pressure and the need for medications. If the Drs want him on meds before he has lost the weight though, do not let them put him on beta blockers as they negatively affect the body's ability to exercise.
How well does he sleep? If he is restless and snores, he may have sleep apnea which often causes high blood pressure. In this case, a CPAP machine could totally eliminate his high blood pressure.
There are two medical devices that are also worth looking into before he goes on the meds. The Zona Plus was discovered by the Air Force, lowers BP 20 points on average and actually changes your body's physiology. It is a small handheld isometric therapy device. The other option, Resperate, is a guided breathing machine that focuses on relaxation and lowers blood pressure an average of 14 points. Both devices are from good companies, have loyal followings and only take a few minutes a day. The Zona has a 60 day money back guarantee and Resperate has a 30.
Good luck!