Thanks, Ches. Yeah, I still don't know what to do. Some people seem to have had relief but others are worse or have a different pain.
I'm tired of hearing different things from different doctors. The approach of some of them to it is ridiculous. I'm told they'll only do one side at a time because of the risk to the testes but that it's okay because I have two, like it's no big deal.
We're just guinea pigs. I think some of the forms of mesh have been banned because they were shrinking inside. One of the surgeons I spoke to said that could have happened to me.
Anyway, thanks very much. I hope things improve with you, too.
And I hope you get some relief, Tina. A lot of my pain is certainly linked to the intestine. As far as I know, it is impossible for the mesh in open inguinal hernia repairs to reach the organs. I think it's only possible with the old TAPP keyhole operation. However, nothing would surprise me.
I was also told that if I put on some weight, it could help. There would be fatty tissue acting as protection. Then another surgeon said I would need to put on a lot of weight before that happened. See five surgeons, get five different opinions.
They don't like doing the mesh removal because it's difficult and has risks, especially for a man. It also weakens the area by opening it up again and creates more scar tissue.
Anyway, you're not the only one. There are many days when I have to loosen trousers, lie down... to get relief. I hope everything works out for you.
All the best,
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