her hips feel like they are coming apart

Hi,
Welcome to the ehealthforum and I am really glad to help you out. From the symptoms, they can be related to labor. There are some signs of labor which you need to keep an eye on. First of all, there may be lightening or when the baby’s head drops down into the pelvic region. she may find it easier to breathe or she may sense heaviness in her lower abdomen. The other symptoms are increased contractions (come at regular intervals, do not decrease with change in posture and last about 30-70 seconds) and sometimes a bloody show due to passing of the cervical mucus plug.

She can apply warm compresses on the back, sleep on her left side and use a support pillow under her knees. If the symptoms are worse then she needs to be examined for dilation and effacement of cervix.

It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care.