My husband has been a truck driver for a year. A few weeks ago he was telling me about a problem he was having and we did some research and figured out it was a hemorrhoid. He started using preparation H and it went away. But now he says it feels like something is not right, like something is in his butt. I asked him is there was blood in his stools and he said his butt bleeds. Now he is complaining about stomach pain. He is 44..I am trying to get him to go see a doctor but he is being very stubborn. Any advice.