I need help. My girlfriend has bulimia and I've known for the past 5 months. She's had it for the last 5 years. During the last 5 months I've tried to help, being around when she's eating, suggesting treatment, never leaving her alone. She's finally told me this is her life and she can't get over it as much as she may want to...in her words "It's just too much a part of me and I can't get over it". She told me the other day that If I cant deal with her having bulimia we can't be together. I want there to be some way for us to be together and her to get better but I don't know how. She said if she went to the hospital her dreams would get delayed and she is VERY against seeking help from anyone. I'm at a loss as to what to do...I love her yet it kills me to see her go through this. PLEASE HELP...