Q: helping bulemic girlfriend
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Randy831
on April 17th, 2008
New User
My girlfriend and me have been together for over a year now and I have always thought she had some type of a weight problem. She will only eat once a day and it’s a very small portion. First she wanted to get her weight down to 113, when she reached that goal the new goal became 107. I talked to her about it and explained that she would actually look better if she weighed about 120 and how eating that way was hurting her body. Well I had thought she took my advice and left it alone, but yesterday after a few drinks well quite a few for her she confessed to me that she has started purging herself. She understands that its all in her head but when she looks in a mirror she thinks shes fat. Ive always know about her weight issue and tried to reassure her how beautiful she is and she doesn’t need to lose any weight and even if she was 200 pounds id still love her. The whole purging thing scares me she opened up to me about it because she doesn’t know how to stop it, the problem is I DON’T KNOW HOW TO STOP IT. I don’t understand it, please if anyone can give me any information on what to do.
Regards,
A person in need
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