my boyfriend has been hanging out alot with his friends. i mean thats fine, hes an adult and has the right to. im not the type of clingy girlfriend. but everytime that he's out he doesnt let me know if hes ok to drive anymore. he used to do it on his own out of consideration but now he doesnt and ends up coming home drunk and high and passes out asleep. the next morning he goes to work, does the same and i only get to see him when he gets home to sleep.

i feel absolutely lonely and have even started feeling neglected. i dont get to see him anymore or spend a night alone like we used to. now he hangs out with his friends gets high and drives home drunk. i really want to know why hes acting like this so suddenly, maybe hes getting bored of me?
he started haning out twice a week, then it became 3 times a week, not its almost 4 times a week after work. plus we used to stay in touch via txt and now when i txt him something either he never gets back to me or just leaves me hanging and its really annoying. (a few suprise dinners have gone to waste cause he doesnt reply anymore) i'd really love some input from guys and girls alike thanks guys