I never have really got along with my brother, and now we are growing apart even further, i am 16 and he is 20, you can feel tension in a room when we are together in it, but we have been getting into worse fights lately and i am scared that we will grow apart, and i will never see him again once we move out. what do i do? (And i have tried all of the usual relationship building stuff, but i get the same respond.