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Help in the bedroom dept

Hi,
Me and my boyfriend have been togther for about a year now, we currently live togther and spend most of our time togther and have a good time. As of lately he seems unintrested in having sex with me, i have tried just about everything which seems to get him intrested but then tends to go soft about half way through. I know he does have some stress but this has been an on going problem I was wondering if you could offer me some advice.
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replied July 16th, 2010
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Hi ruby_soho and welcome to ehealth: So often in new relationships a woman will use sex as a way of keeping everything right...Holding his interest...Being all the woman that she should be...Being the perfect mate...All of the above...What the two of you feel must be passion for each other...He must want you as much as you want him...It must be beyond physical and come from your inner self...I would suggest that if he has changed that much to find out why..Are you being too forceful or are your libido's different?....These are things that could affect your relationship in years to come and you may want to check on them...You have not stated your ages which again is important....I wish you well...Take care...

Caroline
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