You are attracted to this another guy. This is a warning signal, telling you hmmmmmmm you aren't really into your "boyfriend" who seems to never be around. If you want to proceed and start a new relationship with the new guy, at least be decent and talk to your "now" boyfirend. Be honest and tell him you don't want to be in this relationship anymore. You just do not feel the same anymore. You think the two of you should just be friends. If you decide you want to stay wiht this "boyfriend whose never around" then stop looking at other guys.....it really is that simple!

i was in love with my ex while we was together. i wanted to get married, and he wanted to explore other women. he was back & forth through the whole 5 years and this caused so much pain.
my response to you is break up with your boyfriend if you want to date other people.
Did you think anyone would tell you to cheat on your dude?
i can see if you were in the dating stages and guys know your dating other people.
do not hurt him by sneaking, and cheating b/c karma can be a ugly thing.