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Q: Help!!!! How is the father??

asked by: LaChica on July 28th, 2008

New User

Hello I am trying to figure something out! I need you're help........I cheated on my boyfriend and I want to know who is the father? I have a 7 month old baby boy and I need to know who is the father before I tell my boyfriend I wouldn't want to upset him if It isn't worth it.....Here is the story...........I had sex with a friend (Art) on March 10th and had my period March 19th to March 25th I was very irregular on my periods as well. Then I had sex with my boyfriend from there on. But on April 16th I had sex with my friend again So what are the chances? And when would I have gotten pregnant? My first ultrasound was done on May 8th I was 5 wks and 6dys base on ultrasound and on June 2nd again an ultrasound I was 9wks & 3days. My due date ranged from dec 25th to dec 22nd. I had a c-section perform on Dec 17th which I had my baby that day but because I was already dialating when I went to my doctors appointment. So I could of waited, but I had asked to have my baby that day. If I would of waited I don't kow how long more I would of waited to have my baby. So my question is can a ultrasound be wrong?? And base on my baby being born Dec 17th when did I conceive??? Who is the father?

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Mabel

replied on July 28th, 2008

Moderator

If you have a regular cycle, your ovulation would have been around March 30-April 2nd. That would make it more likely that your boyfriend is the father.

LaChica

replied on July 28th, 2008

New User

How's the father

So could I of gotten pregnant before my period? Or on the 16th of April? My periods Were and are irregular always has been. So I even worry about what happen on May 10th before my period?

Mabel

replied on July 28th, 2008

Moderator

You said your last menstrual period was MARCH 19th.

If your periods are irregular, you would have no clue when you may have ovulated and would need to get a DNA test to be sure who the father is.

californchick

replied on July 28th, 2008

Experienced User

Trying to help

They do sell Dna kits at Cvs now the only thing you have to do is send it and pay I think was 100.00 for them to run the test? but you will have to wait till after the baby is born, You could get a test from your doctor where the test the baby in you. they can determine almost exact times with ultrasounds and things I do believe which might help you figure out who is the father I am sorry

Mabel

replied on July 28th, 2008

Moderator

And, no, don't worry about what happened prior to your period. If you had your period, you weren't pregnant.

LaChica

replied on July 29th, 2008

New User

who's the father?

Ok I'm really worrying about what happen on March 10th because I have heard that women can become pregnant before menstraul. But in that case If on May 8th I was 6wk 1dy it wouldn't add up right? But what happen on April 16th I think it would be too soon right??? My son was born on December 17th 2007 by due date was ranging from Jan 1st 2008 but it was a c-section so I was told Dec 25th, but I was dialating already before so I had him on the 17th of December..................Sorry I am just paranoid. By the way my son is ALREADY BORN he is 7mon old already his name is Giovanni. But I still have doubts.......My boyfriend and everyone else says my baby looks like my boyfriend which in alots of ways he does.

californchick

replied on July 29th, 2008

Experienced User

Dna Kit

If you have the money go buy a kit from Cvs Dna kit there, and test that way you will know for sure With the those dna kits I dont think they are blood test kits probably hair sample or saliva test, check it out on the internet.

Mabel

replied on July 29th, 2008

Moderator

Re: who's the father?

LaChica wrote:

It is completely understandable to be concerned and worried about that. It is not common for women to have the regularly scheduled period when they are pregnant. Additionally, when you had your first ultrasound you'd have been MUCH further along that 5.6 weeks, you'd have been more like 9 weeks (based on your LMP BEFORE March).

Let it go or tell your boyfriend. Either choice is yours. The boyfriend is the most likely father based on the dates you've given.

LaChica

replied on July 29th, 2008

New User

Thank you Ingi.......It makes sense! That is what I thought....Now I have my baby boy healthy and my boyfriend is so happy I just didn't want to upset him if it wasn;t worth telling. I was in the point don't get me wrong by telling him, but I would definitely of hurted his feelings and he would off wasted his life in some stupid things.

Mabel

replied on July 29th, 2008

Moderator

Right. So let this all go and focus on what you have. Wink

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