Idk if iam in the right place or but I have been having issues with my girlfriend well now my ex as of a few hours ago she has broken up with me she said she doesnt love me anymore and that she loves me still but that there's nothing there anymore . For a better understanding iam going to tell you how we starred as the perfect couple to nothing but hate.
We first met when i was fourteen she was goin ut with one of my good friends then they broke and we started talking it.was great everything was going good we fell in love
Lot of hard times but we always did it together then at 21 we had a bby life was beautiful it was perfect but then something came over me I felt Like I had to go out and not be tied down well that's when I started cheating and thinking that I didn't need her anymore I left with some other girl for three monthes then I start missing my family and want her back I dump the girl I was with to go back with my bby mamma well for a few monthes things are going good then I get into this deep deppression about what she did while we weren't together she had sex with a few guys and it drove me nuts but she stood by me even when I talk foul to her and called her all these names. But now it seem like the tables have turned but I was getting very addicted to weed it was consuming me I told her that I needed it for my deppression I told her that I would quit but I never did....
I no this probably doesnt make any sense iam just so hurt we stay with her parents iam in her little brothers while she is sleep with our daughter I just need some one to listen and talk with me please help
Your age has a lot to do with the way things have turned out. Both of you seem like you haven't really committed to each other but that is normal since you started out so young.
I also sense you have a bit of jealousy regarding her having sex with other guys. This is perfectly normal and you will get over it, I promise. The most imporant thing is what actions you take regarding your child. I can't speak for what actions she should take but yours should involve doing everything and anything to ensure that your kid grows up right, is raised right and has a future given to him or her that you and I both know the kid deserves.
So be a man. Take responsibility, don't be afraid and don't use vices such as weed to cover up for your shortcomings or misfortunes. Talk to your girl, work things out, it is no longer just about the two of you.