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Q: heart broken over girl i think was "the one" :(

asked by: TryToLiveLife on October 4th, 2009

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SORRY THIS IS LONG but plz help Sad

okay I'll start by saying im 19,and that this was'nt ure average type of relationship we had.Because i met this girl thru the internet.I know it sounds very pathetic,but I really fell in love with this girl.We got to know each other VERY WELL.I mean she was beautiful and what I fell for the most was her personality.
She told me she loved me too, and that I was all a girl could ever want.I told her the same all the time too.We would share pics, and she would sometimes go on her cam. she would tell me all the time I was her handsome man.(I'm not gonna lie, I'm not ugly at all (: ),but thats why i dont wanna tell my friends cuz they would think I was stupid or something. I dont think I could ever forget her :'(.Before I met her, I used to think to myself wat would be a perfect girl for me, and everything she WAS, is wat would come to my mind.
and then at one point she was'nt the same.So I asked her what was wrong.Her response was that her feelings had changed and that she did'nt really feel the same towards me anymore.That killed me.She told me I had done nothing wrong and that she had'nt met anyone else or something but what she really felt was more of a friend love.Wat killed me was that it came out of nowhere,one day she was telling me i was the cutest and that she really felt love for me,and the next she doesnt feel anything. I was telling her of my hopes to go visit her but now..it aint happening.

PLZ HELP I dont think I'll ever meet anyone like her.We said we would still be friends,but is it a good thing for me to just be friends with her?I know its a little pathetic,but I did think she was the one,and now i feel SO HORRIBLE.

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J3nnyuk

replied on October 6th, 2009

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So sorry to hear about your break-up hun, sometimes girls get strange feelings about the opposite sex and they can be in a relationship with them and love them but slowly as time goes by some girls develop a kind of feeling that cant really be described...When the get on with there partner too much if you know what i mean they can start agreeing on everything from clothes to pictures etc. and that is what a girl looks for in a friend so slowly the love fades and the best friend feeling comes out, i believe her when she says its not you you have done nothing wrong because you havent it's just that you get on so well together that is like best friends if you know what i mean...couples are supposed to fall out have rows now and again thats the healthy side of a loving relationship couples who agree all the time tend to fall apart..if you care about her that much then yes i would keep her as a friend but make sure you keep it clean because if you start bombarding her with questions and whys and ifs you will just push her further away until she says right i cant see you anymore and am sure you dont want that....good luck jenny

W0LF

replied on October 7th, 2009

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Hey TryToLiveLife
There isn't a One, even if there was she wouldn't stop loving you without warning. The love of your life is just a person you make a connection with and build a relationship of trust and respect on top of the connection. In that respect the world is full of girls who are waiting to be The One girl for you. Trust that love is relentless and allow yourself to find it again.

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