Hi vonne and welcome to ehealth:..No, I don't think this is normal...It sounds to me like he is going through some sort of "fighting age" problem...This could be either from a sexual problem or still looking for self assurance that he is still "the man"....As for me, I wouldn't ignore it...I would tell him to "cool it when he was with me"...As for the "she's hot" bit...I can tell you with all honesty, that he would never say that again...In other words, I would have my own punishment....

Take care...
Caroline