Thanks very much for your help Jazzy.
I met him about seven months ago and we got on like a house on fire. I guess we just clicked. We spent the next few days together, he stayed the night at my flat. He kept saying that he thought I was beautiful, and that I had a lovely personality and that he thought I was awesome, and then he went away with work over the summer and text me a few times saying that he missed me and couldn't wait to see me again.
We met up again when he got back and then I didn't hear from him for a few weeks.
I bumped into him randomly and he apologized for not getting in touch, and then I didn't speak to him properly for about three months. I phoned him three times, text him twice and send him a couple of messages via chat - he had said that he wanted to be friends so I was trying to keep the friendship going.
To start with, he would reply and apologize, but it would take him a while, but after that he stopped replying althogether and then I found out the other day that he is now seeing someone else.
I do still really like him but I feel upset and like I've been used.
My problem is I've never had a proper relationship, so I get really down when guys do this sort of thing, I hate being single, but this is the fourth time this has happened and I just never learn.
Guys keep saying that I'm hot / pretty / lovely, but I always seem to be just a "good friend" or a potential shag, no-one exept this guy had ever said that they loved my personality or thought that I was beautiful, that's why it seemed so different this time because no-one has ever said that to me before, and I thought it was genuine.
Basically they seem to want my body and not me.
