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kyrafaith Supporter
July 12th, 2009
My heart is undoubtedly breaking right now, i know this doesnt go here or whatever but i needed somewhere with people i have talked to. Matt, my boyfriend for the past year, the one who helped me through my entire pregnancy, the one who held my hand in labor and helped name my son left me tongiht. I feel my heart breaking so much and now its not only for myself but for the second one the consistant father figure my son has come to know, he had asked me to marry him and bought me a ring, and then just like that he leaves. I dont know whats wrong with me or how i pushed him away. Out of no where he just ups and leaves not only me but the little boy he helped bring into this world as well. my little family fell apart before it began and once again im left alone to face life raising a child.Im just hurting so bad, I dont know what to do.
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motherofhighspiritedones
replied July 12th, 2009
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Oh my, I am so sorry Kyra. No explanation at all? I wish I had more comforting words for you. Is there any way you can ask him why? Once again, I am so sorry.
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kyrafaith
replied July 12th, 2009
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Its ok mother, and no explanation. I secretly think its because he doesnt like nathan,m but nathan is the love of my life and no man will come between me and my sn. but being alone again, that does suck.
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JavaMissus
replied July 14th, 2009
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Hi Kyra: I just read your profile and saw a picture of your beautiful son...Let no man come between you and that baby...There is no love on earth that is worth this...You are so young...You will meet someone new in your life...Don't press it...Just enjoy your baby growing and be happy...Happiness is not branded with a man's name on it...Happiness is a child and being free to think for yourself and not being afraid of saying the wrong thing...

You are so lucky to have this child...I am sure your family will be there for you and at the right time you will meet the right person...I send you all my best wishes...

Caroline
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lovemybaby13
replied July 16th, 2009
hey just read your story, I honestly know what your going through you feel so alone and feel like its not fair at all.. and you say you dont know what you did wrong sweetie you did NOTHING wrong stop trying to make excuses for him and putting it on you..I am 7 months pregnant right now and my babys dad left me at 6 months to sleep with another girl..I felt the way you did but then I realized it's not about me anymore its about my baby girl and she needs a safe loving home to be born into. I will love her for both me and him! But really we need to put on a smile and move on because the love of our lives need us!! Goodluck and keep your head up you will be fine
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motherofhighspiritedones
replied July 18th, 2009
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kyrafaith wrote:
Its ok mother, and no explanation. I secretly think its because he doesnt like nathan,m but nathan is the love of my life and no man will come between me and my sn. but being alone again, that does suck.
Good for you for not letting a man come between your son and you. I agree, it does suck. But right now, your priority should be first and foremost, your son. And your top second priority should be you. Spoil yourself. Spoil your son. Make a silver lining for your little family. Best of luck.
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josieR
replied July 18th, 2009
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you shouldn't be asking yourself what you did wrong or how you pushed him away. chances are he wasn't mature enough to handle the responsibility of a child or marriage.
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