I was in a abusive marriage for 13 years I finally got a divorce a couple of years ago. Since my divorce I seem to keep hooking up with guys who are by polar. I don't seek these kind of guys out. That wouldn't be a problem but, its an emotional roller coaster with the ones i've dated. This last one gets mad and wont come around or speak to me for a few days and then show up as if nothing had ever happened. He has gone as far as call and leave mean messages on my phone then claim to not remember doing it. His sister told me that this is common with him and he have episodes like that sometimes. I really can't handle this but, I really care about him. i'm wondering if there is something wrong with me and thats why I keep attracting this kind of guy. I'm thinking of just not dating anyone because I cannot take another bad relationship and can't find a good one. Do anyone have some suggestions for me.