having sex but penis very tight Posted: 03-30-08 09:59am
help!! enjoy the feel of sex when the
penis is inside of me but its a struggle
getting it in;;im not with a partner so i
dont think lube is a good option im only
16 so over time will it become wider?? or
will it be easier please answer thankyou x
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mominashoe
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Posted: 03-30-08 10:11am
Lubricant isn't going to make any
difference if you are having sex with a
steady partner or not. You can get rubbed
and sore from not using it.
You are only 16, so I'm going to suggest
that you hold off the sex until you are
actually ready, because it doesn't look
like you are....it disturbs me that you
are so ignorant about your own body, not
to mention sex. Also sleeping with random
and multiple people is dangerous. You are
at risk for STDs and if you become
pregnant you would have more than a load
of problems.
That being said, your vagina is probably
not going to grow considerably more to
make a difference. The vagina is very
elastic and can accommodate a baby's head
passing though it and can hold in a
tampon. So getting things in isn't the
problem with the size of your vagina.
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caperchick
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Posted: 03-30-08 10:14am
yes its normal for that to happen , it
still happens to me sometimes & im
almost 27.
wet your fingers a little bit before he
puts it in , it works for me.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-30-08 10:32am
You need to use store-bought lube. That
will make it easier for the penis to get
inside. Make sure that both you AND the
penis are lubricated! A wet vagina and a
dry penis does not work.
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emerald1
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Joined: 26 Sep 2007 Posts: 83
Posted: 03-30-08 11:52am
Eiri
wrote:
You need to use store-bought
lube. That will make it easier for the
penis to get inside. Make sure that both
you AND the penis are lubricated! A wet
vagina and a dry penis does not
work.
I do agree make sure you lube up his penis
too.
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Truth_serum
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Posted: 04-04-08 10:35am
You are only 16, sex should be the last
thing that is on your mind. What about
your grades in school, career goals,ect.?
you don't want to be on welfare for the
rest of your life with 5 children.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-04-08 10:40am
This is not an ethical advice forum, so we
try to avoid giving such advice unless the
OP asks for it. Now if she was 13, I'm
pretty sure none of us would be holding
back!
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xbostonx
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Posted: 04-04-08 12:39pm
Who cares if she is 16. Shes on her for
help not to be criticized for having sex.
Its a sexual health forum not ethical sex
forum.
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Pink_highlighter
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Posted: 07-23-08 11:36am
why r u criticizing her ? she can have sex
if she wants at 16. I was having sex at 16
too! Its her business, not yours
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katrina2008
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Come On ppl Posted: 07-23-08 11:51am
True...In my opinion, young ladies know
what they're doing, at least most of them
are..They SHOULD be aware of the dangers
of sleeping around, but we should not be
critcizing them..Now, its up to them to be
ignorant and NOT listen....Who knows..it
could be our own kids one day!..instead of
criticising , I think we should try to
help them....I'm pretty young myself but
fully understand of what I do and the
effects they can have, but in things that
I don't, then thats what I'm here for to
get help!.
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 07-23-08 14:24pm
Im sorry but I dont think her asking
questions about her body is "ignorant". I
think her asking questions is what this
forums is for.
*Now to the OP- You did not say so I will
remind you to always use a condom and
birthcontrol. Your going to have sex
theres nothing we can do about it, so
please be safe. I would suggest lub. But
if that isnt you thing like "Caperchick"
said wet your fingers. Sorry im not more
help!
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Maddie34
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Posted: 07-23-08 15:00pm
Kind of an old post ladies.
I'm sure the OP's got things figured out
by now and most of the other posters
aren't around anymore.
