Lubricant isn't going to make any difference if you are having sex with a steady partner or not. You can get rubbed and sore from not using it.

You are only 16, so I'm going to suggest that you hold off the sex until you are actually ready, because it doesn't look like you are....it disturbs me that you are so ignorant about your own body, not to mention sex. Also sleeping with random and multiple people is dangerous. You are at risk for STDs and if you become pregnant you would have more than a load of problems.

That being said, your vagina is probably not going to grow considerably more to make a difference. The vagina is very elastic and can accommodate a baby's head passing though it and can hold in a tampon. So getting things in isn't the problem with the size of your vagina.

yes its normal for that to happen , it still happens to me sometimes & im almost 27.
wet your fingers a little bit before he puts it in , it works for me.

You need to use store-bought lube. That will make it easier for the penis to get inside. Make sure that both you AND the penis are lubricated! A wet vagina and a dry penis does not work.

I do agree make sure you lube up his penis too.

You are only 16, sex should be the last thing that is on your mind. What about your grades in school, career goals,ect.? you don't want to be on welfare for the rest of your life with 5 children.

This is not an ethical advice forum, so we try to avoid giving such advice unless the OP asks for it. Now if she was 13, I'm pretty sure none of us would be holding back!

Who cares if she is 16. Shes on her for help not to be criticized for having sex. Its a sexual health forum not ethical sex forum.

why r u criticizing her ? she can have sex if she wants at 16. I was having sex at 16 too! Its her business, not yours

True...In my opinion, young ladies know what they're doing, at least most of them are..They SHOULD be aware of the dangers of sleeping around, but we should not be critcizing them..Now, its up to them to be ignorant and NOT listen....Who knows..it could be our own kids one day!..instead of criticising , I think we should try to help them....I'm pretty young myself but fully understand of what I do and the effects they can have, but in things that I don't, then thats what I'm here for to get help!.

Im sorry but I dont think her asking questions about her body is "ignorant". I think her asking questions is what this forums is for.

*Now to the OP- You did not say so I will remind you to always use a condom and birthcontrol. Your going to have sex theres nothing we can do about it, so please be safe. I would suggest lub. But if that isnt you thing like "Caperchick" said wet your fingers. Sorry im not more help!

Kind of an old post ladies.
I'm sure the OP's got things figured out by now and most of the other posters aren't around anymore.