So me and my mom have been arguing all day and when I got home tonight she made me feel like crap and I have been crying ever since....(could also be the hormones)

She said (not asked) she was coming to the first ultrasound with us and I told her that we wanted the first one to just be us, becuase after the miscarraige it means something to us to be able to share that moment together of hopefully hearing the heartbeat for the first time since we didnt get to last time.

Well she flipped out and said I made the biggest mistake of my life by pushing her out of my life, and we werent the only ones affected by the miscarriage, and she cant believe how selfish I am and she is blaming it all on Matt (my boyfriend)...she came up in my room and yelled at me and started crying but when I went to say something she said "I dont wanna hear it" and walked out of my room and slammed the door.

Am I wrong for wanting the first one to just be me and Matt???
Everyone thinks its fine except my mom and she is taking the whole thing wrong.