Broken Hearted Forum - having a baby and he doesnt want to get married

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Q: having a baby and he doesnt want to get married

asked by: 19yearold on October 17th, 2009

Experienced User

we been together for 9 months and im 2 months pregnant and when i ask him do you want to get married and he says no and i ask him why and he says he doesnt know but im so confused maybe he doesnt love me anymore or if he likes someone else or he nervous i dont know but it brakes my heart maybe i should just leave him cause im so sad

Replies(12)

Candyland

replied on October 19th, 2009

New User

Why are you so focused on marriage? Why can't you be happy with your current relationship status?

Give him some time, if you keep pushing you will push him away and then probably won't have a relationship, not everyone would like to get married.

Enjoy life and enjoy each others company!

ServiceU

replied on October 24th, 2009

Supporter

i agree your 19 years old you should enjoy your life. are yall living together? is he working?
this could be a scarey thing for a young man, bringing a baby into this world, and getting married.

J3nnyuk

replied on October 24th, 2009

Moderator

You need to let him deal with the news of becoming a dad before you try and push him into marriage because if you keep pushing this subject he will just become defensive and might even walk away which is not something you want for you or your baby....Jenny

ServiceU

replied on October 25th, 2009

Supporter

i m 33 y.o and i had two long term relationships in my life. i wanted to marry them both and if i did i wouldve been 2x's divorced.
my advice is if your in love with him that's fine, but see how supportive he is when things are rough.

19yearold

replied on October 31st, 2009

Experienced User

i want to freaking delete this freaking topic but cant figured it out dammm stop commenting plz

J3nnyuk

replied on November 1st, 2009

Moderator

why you want to delete hun?

ServiceU

replied on November 2nd, 2009

Supporter

because everyone's advice is to the left.
if you delete this post the administrator have the option to put it back up it they choose.

19yearold

replied on November 5th, 2009

Experienced User

no thats not why! my evil sister went into my profile and wont that!!!!!!! i left it open at her house and she wanted go on here and post that its sorta funny but its annoying im already married !!!!

J3nnyuk

replied on November 5th, 2009

Moderator

Then just say that in the post..Jenny

ServiceU

replied on November 5th, 2009

Supporter

I dont mean to be rude 19year old, but is this the only post your sister made, because you have other posts stated that you are single.
I hope you are not playing games with people who try to help people in need with serious problems.
sincerely,
supporter

19yearold

replied on November 6th, 2009

Experienced User

im not going to argue with ya when i say something i mean it not going to waste my time

J3nnyuk

replied on November 6th, 2009

Moderator

then please dont waste our time either..there are people on here with genuine issues and health problems that want our help.

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