I am 21 and have been having sex since i was 16 i masturbated alot when i was 14 plus but nothing to extensive and masturbate approx 4 to 6 times a week as it is, i have always found it very hard to cum when having sex, i dont get enough sensation to really get me going. The girls are normaly very happy as they cum long before me and most of the time im left wanting.
Is there anything i can do about this?
my guess would be that we r used to a more intense feeling when we do it ourself that when we do it fo real we can't cum without it ...
a help that I'm using is a Fleshlight if u don't know what it is google it, it's a male sex toy... same problem there when u use your hand to move it u can have more speed and it feels better but if u go hands free it only feels good but I've noticed that if I keep training it starts to feel better everytime ... first time was an empty feeling I've worked myself up to that it feels like I'm gonna cum but to cum I still gotta move it with my hand at a greater speed but I'm getting there..
I stronly recomend it cuz it's just like a real pu**y so the right feeling is there u just gotta get used to cumming with the motion from ur hips.. of course u could just do it with a girl allot to get used to it but with the fleshlight u can try new things to see if those works better or not if they screw up then u don't have a girl thats wondering why u change speed all the time .. u gotta know how to make yourself feel good before u can make anyone else feel good