I think we have the same problem
http://ehealthforum.com/health/can-t-cum-
during-sex-t142137.html
my guess would be that we r used to a more
intense feeling when we do it ourself that
when we do it fo real we can't cum without
it ...
a help that I'm using is a Fleshlight if u
don't know what it is google it, it's a
male sex toy... same problem there when u
use your hand to move it u can have more
speed and it feels better but if u go
hands free it only feels good but I've
noticed that if I keep training it starts
to feel better everytime ... first time
was an empty feeling I've worked myself up
to that it feels like I'm gonna cum but to
cum I still gotta move it with my hand at
a greater speed but I'm getting there..
I stronly recomend it cuz it's just like a
real pu**y so the right feeling is there u
just gotta get used to cumming with the
motion from ur hips.. of course u could
just do it with a girl allot to get used
to it but with the fleshlight u can try
new things to see if those works better or
not if they screw up then u don't have a
girl thats wondering why u change speed
all the time
.. u gotta know how
to make yourself feel good before u can
make anyone else feel good
