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Q: Hard erections and relaxed vaginal muscles

asked by: DoctorQuestion on July 7th, 2008

I desparately need your help doctor.

I got married recently before 2 months and we have still not had sexual intercourse even once. :(

Whenever we try having sex, I find it very difficult to penetrate. I have found the vaginal opening but it does not penetrate when I try to insert. She says it is too tight and she always fears insertion for some reason. I have problems with my knees and hence i cannot bend my knees well. Also please advice which position is the most suited and easily allows penetration.

I am able to masturbate everyday without problems but with a slight pain on the edges of the penis. That happened after I was operated on my penis and done a half circumcision.

Help. this is ruining my marriage :(

Don

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Dr. Nikola Gjuzelov , MD

replied on July 7th, 2008

Sexual Health - Men Answer A4374

If your erection is okay the problem is not in you but mainly in her. Even with a hard enough erection it is not easy to penetrate a vagina that is very tight and dry.

It is another problem if your erection is not hard enough or you feel pain because of a penis disorder.

You can try to relax your wife when trying to have sex. You shouldn’t rush to insert your penis in her vagina. Foreplay is very important to relax vaginal muscles and make the vagina wet so that it can easily accept the penetration. Lubricant might help in your case. You can try all the positions and find the most suitable one(s).

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