2 hard bumps on back of my neckare Very tender to the touch

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I have always noticed hard small lumps. I have a reoccurring one in my groin area under the skin moves and is about pea sized. I had to have a cyst or some such lanced and stuffed with some stuff about 6 years under my armpit, and those reoccur occasionally but have not had to have one removed again since then.
Currently I have 2 hard bumps on the back of my neck, directly under the skull, on either side of the spine. These usually don't bother me except for when I have a headache, but they have grown recently and are VERY tender to the touch. Today the right side is very painful but seems to be smaller. I also have a bloody runny nose, no other cold symptoms.

Should I wait for my doctors appointment or go to Urgent Care? I am worried it needs to be lanced, or worse, is lymphoma.